When I come to write one of
these articles and find my computer is still displaying something I have
written before, I have two choices: either to save it if it is worth keeping
and file it away in a “folder” for later reference, or if it isn’t worth
keeping to delete it and replace it with something that is worthwhile.
Likewise, when we finish our
day we often find that we have been surrounded by so much turmoil that our
“computer brain” is full of mistakes that have depressed us, things that have
frustrated us (like my new computer) and people that have annoyed us, and that can
form into resentment, after all they should not have said that, or done that,
should they? then there was the gossip we heard or entered into, and something
we did that was just plain selfish. In that situation the thing we must not do is press our “save” key, even
though it is tempting to do so (talking of “tempting” who do you think is
tempting you to “save” those things in your mind?)
Certainly not God because Paul
had all this sort of thing in mind, no doubt, when he said “Be angry and sin not; don’t let the sun go down on your wrath” (Ephesians
4:26). In other words, it is normal
enough for us to get upset at times but we must “delete” those thoughts and
certainly not carry them over into tomorrow. Jesus statement in Matthew 6:34
confirms that idea, where He says: “Take
therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the
things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof”. So we must ask God, in Jesus name, to delete
all those thoughts or they will become strongholds of unforgiven sin, that will
“clog”our memory bank and undermine us.
Linked up to this is the
“Lord’s Prayer”: the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray so He gave
them the “outline” of a prayer that most of us know, and have often repeated,
if we are Christians. It goes like this: “Our
Father, who art in Heaven, Hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy will be
done on earth as it is in Heaven, give us this day our daily bread” (So far
so good); but just look at the next verse: “and
forgive us our trespasses as we
forgive those who trespass against
us….” Now that shows how very important
it is to forgive others because in that prayer we are asking for
forgiveness for ourselves that is conditional on whether or not we are prepared
to forgive others.
From my school days I
remember our Head Master (who taught me English Literature) quoting some well
renowned writer as saying: “It is a Prince’s part to pardon”. I would like to
“name drop” by telling you who that writer was, so that you
would think me well educated but you see I went to Cobar Public School, and that photo is of Cobar’s main street in the days when I was a student there; and the school was no more advanced than that street; so full credit to me that I can remember the quote, let alone remember the writer’s name.
would think me well educated but you see I went to Cobar Public School, and that photo is of Cobar’s main street in the days when I was a student there; and the school was no more advanced than that street; so full credit to me that I can remember the quote, let alone remember the writer’s name.
But what did the writer mean
when he, or she, said those words? Well, for example, if you were caught taking
drugs into Indonesia you may well be condemned to death. However, the President
could grant you a pardon if he wished; and so it is in many countries.
Therefore, we see that pardoning someone (forgiving them) is not a sign of
weakness but (as that writer implied), is a sign of strength and authority, and
for us to not pardon or forgive someone is a sin by which we sign our own
“death warrant”, (see Matthew 18: 35).
It doesn’t matter if you go
to church weekly, say prayers ten times daily and help old people to cross the
road. None of that pulls any weight with God if you have not forgiven others
for the things they have done. No! I’m not being unreasonable, in Matthew 6:15
Jesus said that if we don’t forgive others God won’t forgive us. It is as
simple as that. I heard a lady say “I just cannot forgive my mother for what
she did”. Well according to the Lord’s prayer and Matthew 18: 23 to 35, if she
doesn’t change her attitude, she will have eternity in Hell to regret that
un-forgiveness and she may not be the only unforgiving person there, because
this is a mistake we can all easily make if we are not careful.
It cost Jesus his earthly
life to arrange our forgiveness, whilst it merely costs us a loss of pride to
forgive others. But think of what we gain! (or lose if we don’t)
Best wishes, as you come to
terms with that and “delete” before night fall. Tom.
Isn’t Christianity
challenging and exciting?
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